Ayo Sue

 I got sent this today,thought I should share. 

(1) - Going straight for the naughty bits. You’ve got to be sensitive to the fact that a woman is more likely to be irritated than aroused when a man dives for her breast and vulva after a few minutes’ perfunctory kissing. While you might get to feel the goods, you’re not going to be invited back.

(2)- Not knowing how to kiss sensitively Passionate or sensitive, firm or gentle, good kissing is an art form which lubricates the wheels of sex and gets everyone in the mood for more intimacy. Learn how to kiss, and do it well. That doesn’t mean sticking your tongue in her mouth and wiggling it around like you’re trying to floss her teeth.

(4)- Not stroking and caressing her A woman’s second biggest sex organ is her skin. (The first is her mind.) You can make your touch on any part of her body into a sexy caress, but you have to focus on what you’re doing and put some sexual energy into your fingers while you caress her. That means not thinking about the baseball game while you’re giving her a sensuous massage.

(5)- Locking onto her nipples like a suckling child Yes, we know it’s fun for you. To her it just feels like she’s got a teething infant hanging off her breast. Lick and kiss around her whole breast before you go for the nipple, then flick your tongue gently across the nipple and around the areolae. If she likes what you’re doing, you’ll know by her moans of pleasure.

(6)- Assuming that sex means a relationship. The only relationship you have is that she has now stuck her cha-cha in your hoo-hoo dilly.That’s as far as it goes unless otherwise noted.

(7)- Trying to get your fingers in her underwear before she’s ready This is the mark of a gauche teenage lover who wants to get to fourth base just so he feels more accomplished as a lover. Take your time, let things evolve naturally, and apply a little sensuous touch on the fabric covering her vulva before you dive under the elastic. The hint of what’s to come is often more erotic than diving straight in there.

(8)- Expecting her to figure out what you like by what noise you make. Use your words. Have you ever actually heard what you sound like while you’re having sex? If you heard yourself on tape, and someone asked you to explain what was causing you to make that noise, 67% of men would respond with answers like “I stubbed my toe” “I ran up the steps” or “I was putting up drywall”.

(9)- Being too afraid to guide your partner’s hand when she’s touching you. Don’t like the way she’s doing it? Gently take her hand and show her how you like it.

(10)- Not coming at all - or losing your erection when you put the condom on If you’re one of that rarer breed of men who has trouble coming during intercourse, may we respectfully suggest you see a sexual therapist? You can then deal with this problem, learn to come more quickly, and avoid giving her a numb vagina and an intimate knowledge of the exact shade of color you painted your bedroom ceiling. If you’re one of the many men who lose their erection when the condom comes out of its foil wrapper and onto the head of your penis, it’s back to Google for a search on, astonishingly enough, “losing erection when putting on a condom”.

TO BE CONTINUED………

helpful me? yes ;))) x

Ayo sue -London courtesan

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Behing every great woman,

is a guy

looking at her bum!